Okay, I have told you all before that my brother is crazy. He has been in and out of trouble his whole life. He doesn't work, he has warrants out for his arrest, his roomate sells drugs so he goes along with him everywhere. Him and his roommate are soo nice though, I don't get it. They look out for eachother, everytime I see them they both say BE CAREFUL. They are just really sweet guys, but they are sooooooooo stupid!!!! ANYWAYS my bros ex is going to have a baby in about 5 weeks! And Taylor has not been there for her at all throughout the whole pregnancy. They fought all the time and broke up every month when they were together. THey can't help but to fight when they see eachother. They aren't even FOR SURE if it is tays baby, but I think it is. But the problem is Haley(his ex) now says that my sister(who just went through a divorce and her daughter has a diff. last name then she does now and she hates that) said that if she were her she would make the babys last name her last name. And not Taylors bc they don't know for sure if Taylor is going to be responsible. Tay says that if it is his baby he is going to be there for it. He isn't going to be with Haley, but he will be there for his baby. He said he will never talk to her again is she does that to him,(she is doing it bc she is mad at him) which she sorta has a right to be bc he has been sitting on his butt this whole time while she has been working 40 hours a week and is pregnant. What do you all think about this whole dramatic situation? my brother needs help but I don't know how to give it to him.
Jen, I really dont know what to say. I dont thikn I can help you, sorry. The only thing that I can say is I worry for the child. I hope it works out for you all though.
I can pray for you and your family. When I don't know what else to do, this is the best thing I can think of. I'm so sorry that you are faced with this and then on top of it all, having to feel helpless. I am thinking of you in my prayers.
It's so sad when ppl say they don't believe in God. I sure don't know what to say to help the whole situation, but it's sad to think of the child coming into things that are so bad. Prayer is all I can think of to help out here. I sure hope for the child's sake that things can get worked out. God Bless!
I am so sorry, and I don't know what to say. I feel bad for the baby to have to come into such a bad situation. I hope that everything gets worked out. It must be frustrating to feel so helpless about it all
I agree with Jen, I don't see how anyone couldn't believe in a higher power. But, I really have no advice on this type thing. All I can do is pray that things workout for the best.
They are both adults and are responsible for their actions and decisions. Just be a good person for your family and pray. Prayer is the most effective. Things will happen that you cannot control and sometimes things happen for a reason. As for the child, I do feel bad he/she will have to come into this world with the situation. Sadley more and more children come into this world in those kinda situations.